Xa iholide yasebusika okanye yasehlotyeni ifika, abantwana bentsapho bayahlangana, ngoko ufuna ukuba benze into engakwazi nje ukuphuhlisa ingqondo yabo, kodwa inokubenza bajabule.Unokubanika uthotho lweephazili ukuba bazakhe, ezifana nesikolo, umyezo wezilwanyana, ilizwe, isithuthi, inqaba, abalinganiswa njl njl.Basenokukhetha umxholo abawuthandayo baze bagxile ekuzigqibezeleni bodwa okanye beliqela, ixesha liyahamba, abantwana banokufunda umonde ngakumbi, ukuyila kunye nokucinga ngokudibanisa iphazili.Njengomzali, unokuchitha ixesha elininzi usenza eyakho imisebenzi ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokuba umntwana wakho unexesha elikruqulayo.